First Samuel 25 Anger and Restraint Handout
What examples can you think of where a character from the Bible became angry or needed to deal with anger?
Introduction
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What examples can you think of where a character from the Bible became angry or needed to deal with anger?
Main Body (1st Samuel 25)
Introducing Nabal
The Man (v. 2-3)
The Situation (v.4-9)
The Offense (v.10-12)
Questions to Ponder
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Have you ever thought that someone would treat you well only to discover that they treat your poorly?
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How do you respond when someone treats you poorly?
==Offended==
The Initial Reaction (v. 13-17)
The Plan (v. 18-22)
Questions to Ponder
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Have you ever been so angry with someone that you did or said something you regretted later?
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Why is it important that we slow down and think about things when we are angry?
==Diffusion==
The Humble Response (v.23-27)
The Hope of Promise (v.28-29)
The Importance of Innocence (v.30-31)
Questions to Ponder
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How do you think David would have felt later had he killed Nabal?
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What might have happened had David killed Nabal and his household?
==Judgement==
The Judge (v.38-39)
The Blessing (v.42)
Questions to Ponder
- Should you hope that God brings judgement on your enemies?
Conclusion
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What are ways in which you can relate to David's feelings of anger over the situation with Nabal?
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When have you incorrectly responded to feelings of anger? How did that make you feel?
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How should a Christian deal with anger?
